Wednesday, June 20, 2012

The Game Called Life (A Vent)

Life is just a game. You are born to live to die. You go from stage to stage. You encounter so many forks in the road. So what do you do when you don't know what to do? You got these people yapping in your ear about what they want you to do. You got those people talking about if  "I were you I would" Been there done that ready to move on with my life!

Life is unfair. Why do some people get to live good and others don't. hmmm I used to think like this but I learned not to be jealous of anyone. Because I don't know what they had to do to get what they have. I'm determined to live my life to the best of my abilities. Even though I fall down and make mistakes I will still continue with my journey

Today isn't a good day. I just feel so ugghhh. And people are being ridiculous! But what can you do. The only thing I can do concentrate on me and do what I have and need to do for me and my son.

Tuesday, June 19, 2012

What happened to courting?

What happened to the days when guys would ask women out on dates. When they would pick them up and take them to the movies, dinner or both. The days when a woman did not have to on her p&q's about the guy that she was going out. Trying to figure out what his real intentions are. "Does he like me or does he just want to have sex with me?" are the questions going through her mind. What happened to those days?

I'm married and I am glad that I don't have to put up with the nonsense that I have heard from some women. I don't have times for the games or drama. So if I wasn't married I would probably still be single. The time we live in today it is disgusting. Men running around with this woman and that woman but they have a woman at home. People having multiple children by different people. It is a shame. It seems that the cycle will never be unbroken. Marrying for love is rare these days. Most people are out for themselves and what they can get out of another person. 

I'm saddened by the way things are. The only one that is getting hurt are the kids. They will only grow up and imitate what they see us do. 

My Life As An Author

Writing is my life! I love it! I have been writing since the age of 12. I started writing in journals. Journal writing helped me get through the dark life that I lived. I was the oldest of four. I was the one taking care of my younger siblings. I got to be too much so I decided to write about it to keep me sane. I wrote a semi autobiography of my life titled " A Black Princess's Diary

I am the author and publisher of Diamond Studded Publications. My first book is titled Tales of the Broken Hearted available in paperback and e book. It is a collection of stories of three people that were betrayed by the people that they love. My second book (which is a flash fiction story) available in ebook format. I also write for Dream Pathway's Magazine. And now I can add blogging to my list

Being an author and a publisher is hard work. I am constantly writing or networking. I wouldn't trade it in for the world. I love networking with authors and other publishers. I have an authors group and a book club on FacebookDiamond Studded Publications. I have finally found a career that I love and that is so fulfilling.

My article about Marriage for Dream Pathway Magazine

UBAWA's Daily News Feed - URBAN BOOKS AUTHORS & WRITERS OF AMERICA

Love and Hip Hop. Really?!

This is my first blog and I have a few things on my mind. Last night I watched the first episode of Love and Hip Hop Atlanta. Boy oh Boy I have a big problem with a few people.

There is not enough love in the world for a person to put up with the mess Mimi has. While I don't know the whole story of her relationship with Stevie J, he has shown so much disrespect in less than an hour. How dare him walk in a club with another woman and then come over and give Mimi a kiss. Then on top of that he is messing with a woman that looks like a man. Really?! And this is why women say their are no good black men. Because people like him get good woman and treat them like crap. Doing what they want and how they want. But he doesn't get all the blame. Ms. Mimi allowed him for 15 years to walk all over her so of course he isn't going to stop just cause she said so

Joseline really?! You have no talent, you are far from cute and you messing with the next woman's man. Women like her make me sick. Why because she thinks she's doing something by being with someone else's man. When in all reality what he did to Mimi he will do to her. Stupid is the name that I call her!

Erica I commend her for putting her guard up against Lil Scrappy. He made his bed now he need to lie in it. Why do men think that they can go from person to person and when it doesn't work come back to the one that loves them. No! I wish that Mimi would learn the lesson.

Lil Scrappy is feeling some kind of way cause Erica won't give him compassion. Why should she? Did he not betray her to be with Diamond? So because Diamond left does that mean he can come back like nothing happened? Men are ridiculous in thinking that everything is all good after a break up. News Flash women have hearts and emotions. Betrayal, lies and heartache are not easy to get over!

I'm just too through the show and that was only the first episode. I will continue to watch. lol the drama makes for a good book!